Sunday, March 11, 2012

Happy International Women's Day

Hi Woman

I heartily wish you a happy women's day to you. This is one day which officially declares that it is not only the men who move this world. Thanks to some revolutions and rebels who has made this day. May be this fact was ruled and recognized many decades back and even now though many men consider this as sheer bull shit, but at the back to their mind they also know that the fact imperative.

Let us start with the most insignificant and sub standard aspect like a bai or cleaning lady. Ok let’s start with house wife stuff but there also we see if the lady misses for one day, at least we are left with no clue. What I mean to say is that in Indian society although it is considered as women are of no good use and they do not have the privilege to grow up and stand shoulder to shoulder, I firmly believe that it is all false. It is the woman who drives the nature. Who endures the pain and gives birth to a new life. Isn’t that enough to give them some respect. If that is not enough then give a thought that it is she who not only gives the birth and consider as the job done to move over; but she takes the responsibility to kindle the soul and nourish the soul with all the care and nutrition he/she needs. The woman feeds her, dresses her, teaches him/her the values of life, and loves her. Well I would agree that some of the job can be very well taken by a man also but it happens that in the daily chores of life and in an effort to make the life comfortable or to live up to the day’s bread a man is unable to deliver on this front. For here it is the woman who bears the burden on her tender shoulder to shape one’s life. One should realize the extent of selfless sacrifices she makes to reach up to the level. What I believe is that it’s the bond of the flesh and it’s her blood in the soul which makes a woman perennially attached to that soul. Even though even if we consider the case of adoption she leaves no stone unturned because if she fails in this, she has failed to achieve the most basic motive i.e.: to help grow a life.

Moving ahead with the primary role of a woman, I now consider my privilege to apprise the woman on her work role part. We are human soul. Nothing matters to us more than happiness and the feel of being content. Although as per the basic laws of living one needs food, cloth, shelter and sex to survive, we find the role of women is all these four aspects. Although what I have seen is that no great chef till date is a woman and no great cook is a woman but at the end of the day it is the woman only who cooks food even for the greatest chef. It is a woman only who bears the responsibility in the family to ensure that every one is feed sufficiently with the best taste. When it comes to the cloth it is the woman who helps you dress. She decorates you and ensures that u look good and sensible in what you wear. Taking the worst case scenario, even if you do not have cloth on your body at least traditional dress of an Indian women (sari) is equipped for you to get wrapped in multiple covering. When it comes to shelter it is the woman who converts the four wall enclosing of mortar and brick to a home. A home is a place where you live and cherish your dreams. It is a place where we have a family. And a woman without a blink takes the full responsibility to keep it up to the mark.

I firmly believe that it is a woman and only a woman who drives the world. We all agree to the fact that men are great and they drive the world but here also the question is that for whom they drive?? Or for what purpose they drive?? Well some are born to do stuff like all our great men scientists, some our born to make stories and establish histories, like all business engines and leaders, but what about the others?? What drives them? It is the necessitated motivation in them. But again what invokes that motivation. It’s the turmoil of emotions and the desire to strive for something. Now here this turmoil engine is fuelled by women and the driving inertia is also a woman. This is fact and all need to agree to it. Suppose, what would one do with all the happiness in this possession but no one to share. Happiness is a logarithmic index, and the coefficient to move it up is sharing with a woman. The more we share the more it increases and that is the reason we have the social platform like facebook and we strive to have maximum attendance of visitors on any occasion sponsored by us. A woman is the one who knows the magic to drive a man by his emotional wires. And we all must agree to the fact that those wires are the most potent and are the most powerful to drive us. Ever wondered that why a women has such crazy and insane lasting memory. Well it is act of science that we remember a moment only when it gets trapped into a neuron attached with some power full emotion. Else there is no funda for one to remember. And hence here is the reason why woman have such craze memories. She knows the trick to play this stuff with the emotions. She is manipulative. And well this is the reason we have most of our HR officers ad woman who can hear your cry and then make you stay more in the organization.

Towards the end for the men, I would like to say that even this conversation may not make one feel that women have superior social index with respect to men, but I would conclude that it is a women only which gives you the privileged to be the superior one.

For the women, hats off to you, for I know that you deserve all the respect and privilege to drive the world. Nevertheless even though if you find any man considering that men are superior to women, you can easily crush there ego by claiming the credit for what you have done to make them superior.

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